Wendy Newman

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Contact me for: 8-week dating tele-classes, workshops, public speaking, individual and group coaching for women about men, dating, sex and partnership.

I’m committed to people feeling uninhibited, connected and free in their sexuality and relationships.

My book, 101 First Dates: A Survival Guide For The Single Girl chronicles my experience of 101 first dates, tales sure to elicit commiseration, validation and laughter. But that's just the half of it. You'll find practical wisdom based on research and experience that will keep you in the dating game until you find your mate.

Professionally, I’ve led over 100 workshops to thousands of women and interviewed about one thousand men on sex, dating, and relationships.

I’ve appeared as the local dating and relationship expert on five episodes of Andaz, a South Asian talk show on Sony Entertainment Network (10 million viewers); and have given a dozen or so radio interviews.

My 10 years of research, input from outside sources, and good old-fashioned trial and error has made me someone who has something to say about men, women and dating.

I’m a percipient and compassionate fellow dater who navigated my way through 120 first dates before I retired my dating scarf for lucky first date #121. We live in San Francisco, California.

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Expert Articles by Wendy Newman

Dating

Have an engaging conversation when going on a first date with a man
Feeling comfortable with your date creates a willingness to share, and offers a sense of grace in partnership from the moment you meet. This is an important quality to a man who’s interested in a co...
How to end the first date gracefully when you're not interested
None of us are skilled at breaking it off because we don’t want to hurt their feelings or be displeasing. This is natural. If they ask you out again, say, “Thank you so much for asking. I can tell...
Advice for men on selecting their online dating profile photo
Photos are the gateway to everything good about online dating. Spend a little time making sure your pictures reflect you accurately and authentically. And take the feedback. If every woman you meet te...
Women: Use sexy and appealing photos for your online dating profile
A photographer friend once told me, “When you’re taking your sexy shot, think, ‘I know a secret.’ It will give you a sweet, sexy, playful expression.”If you’re not getting responses to you...

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Marriage and Couples

Get help if you are unsure of your marriage or relationship
Making a decision about changing a relationship is one of the hardest things that people do. When there are kids involved, that decision making process is even harder. Give yourself the time that you ...
Date night is a must for parents to ensure a healthy relationship
Finding the opportunity, and the courage, to spend time alone with your partner isn’t easy for many parents. Not only are there the very real demands of modern family life, fear and hesitation may b...
Parents can still have a romantic relationship while raising kids
Most long-term couples - especially parents - go through periods when their romantic life loses its vitality. While it can be pretty distressing, try to regard it as a normal stage in the life span of...
Admitting when you are wrong supports a healthy relationship
Remember, the one who apologizes or gives into their partner is not admitting they are wrong, but supporting their relationship over their point of view. And true love always overcomes self-righteousn...
Save your relationship with an experienced marriage counselor
You want to pick a marriage counselor who has a good amount of experience and who focuses on marital issues as his focus of work. It is also important to get a counselor who will help you experience c...
Expert advice for a strong and passionate marriage and relationship
Strengthening your marriage is a necessity, not a luxury. Marriages cannot afford to be in an inert or status quo state. We need to work on ourselves and the relationship to get the most out of it. As...
Expert advice on meditation and how it can improve your relationship
Meditation, being mindful, and appreciative will improve all aspects of your life and relationship. Just like going to the gym, the most important thing is to start and be consistent, and all the bene...
Get the love you want in your relationship with help from a therapist
You may ask yourself, what can I get out of couples therapy? The answer lies in what you are hoping to learn about yourself, your partner and/or your troubled relationship. People go to couples counse...
Maintaining sexual and emotional intimacy is vital for parents
Many couples will make changes in their lives for the sake of their children before they will do it for themselves. But having a thriving, robust sex life is possible when you have children. In fact, ...
Expert advice for keeping the romance alive after having a baby
Most new parents feel daunted by the difficulty of keeping their sex life alive. Faced with the multitude of challenges that come home with the baby, it can feel like an unsolvable riddle. But with so...
Do you tell your fiancee that you don't love the engagement ring?
The Maybe Factor: If it’s a family heirloom, all bets are off and a whole new set of rules apply.Prevention is always best. If you slip your partner hints from the beginning, most of this could have...
Emotionally connect to make it a good relationship and marriage
Emotional connection is an essential ingredient in a healthy relationship. It is built and destroyed by the way you handle little everyday things. As the saying goes “The devil is in the details.”...
Parents can rekindle their intimacy to create a strong marriage
Intentional acts of love, kindness and sensuality stimulate the part of our brain that thinks, “Yes, I am a sexy person and not just a parent.” These small connections may not be explicitly sexual...
Great first wedding anniversary gift ideas for your husband
Whether it’s a special watch, cufflinks or a ring, there are many unique jewelry pieces that you can purchase for your husband on your first wedding anniversary. Consider these tips to find the perf...
Fostering strong connections is essential to family well-being
Creating traditions of connection in your relationship is vital for building a lasting bond. Work with each other on introducing and nurturing behaviors that will put you back on the path towards each...
Create meaningful relations by nurturing fulfillment and intimacy
Sustaining long-term intimacy is real and attainable. By following these steps and making a commitment to practice, you can achieve new levels of happiness and fulfillment with your partner and in you...
Understand the 4C's and get the best value when buying a diamond
From understanding diamond grades to knowing your lady’s preferences, from asking if a diamond is color treated to watching out for simulants, it’s important to have background knowledge before yo...
How to create the perfect marriage and avoid divorce
The power to create a successful marriage lies in our very own hands. Divorce can truly be avoided if we each do our part to foster a climate of love, devotion and commitment. We must recognize the pa...
Plan the perfect Valentine's Day for your wife or girlfriend
Valentine’s Day is about celebrating your relationship, and expressing your love. It’s the thoughtful little things that show you truly care; so swap the pricey present for a new experience togeth...
Tips to ensure parenting does not interfere with your marriage
Being a parent is tough. But it doesn’t have to interfere with your marriage. Parenting and marriage should both be fun. And if one is causing problems for the other, that’s a sign that you are do...
How to put the sizzle in your sex life regardless of your age
Acknowledge, address and resolve your issues in and out of the bedroom. We all need more fun in our lives. So beginning today, talk to your partner and jointly make a decision to take whatever steps a...
Improve your marriage and relationship through better communication
Even if your relationship is on a rocky road at the moment, smoother sailing can be just ahead. Strengthening your communication skills and making time to connect every day will go a long way to impro...
An unplugged weekend getaway will do wonders for a relationship
A change in scenery and pace creates the opportunity to change your perspective. Getting out of your routine shakes things up and helps you rediscover and rejuvenate yourself and your relationship. Th...
How can married couples thrive when one partner has adult ADHD?
It is possible that you are one of the millions of couples whose relationship is on the rocks because of undiagnosed adult ADHD. If you think you detect symptoms of ADHD, such as chronic distraction a...

Dating

Relationship advice for successfully dating a recovering addict
Like any romantic relationship, dating a recovering addict can have its challenges. If you’re realistic about what you can handle and what kind of support you can offer, chances are the qualities yo...
How to have a great first date that will lead to a second
First dates are important because they can be the gateway to a great relationship or the end of it in one night. If you hate first dates because you’ve been unsuccessful at them, there are things yo...
Advice for men on how to impress and get the girl
Whether you’re trying to establish a connection with a woman online or offline, it’s important to remember to keep an open mind and try to understand as much as you can about her to find out wheth...
Know your personality type and find your perfect partner for life
If a relationship lacks substance it is often because the partners are not connecting on a level of complementing nature or personality types. Knowing and understanding these types will allow you to d...
Advice for men on how to keep your girlfriend from cheating on you
Women cheat just as much as men do, but for different reasons. When a woman cheats, it’s typically her man’s fault. Do your best to find a partner without a history of sexual or emotional abuse. O...
Expert advice on surviving a healthy long distance relationship
Long distance relationships don’t work? Some don’t, but good relationships aren’t about proximity, they’re about choices- things you do and things you don’t. These are a few common sense ide...
Expert advice for women to minimize the risk of male infidelity
Men are as faithful as their options, so the best way to keep a guy faithful is to date one with few sexual options. The problem is that most women don’t want to date that type of guy. Most women wo...
True love and romance can be found though international dating
Whether you’re looking near or far for a date, it’s vital to remember that strong relationships aren’t built overnight, and having fun is the key to having a successful future with someone....
What you should know and how to go about dating in the military
Ranks filled with young, buff and tough single guys might sound like a female recruit’s dream come true, but it can quickly become a nightmare if you don’t adhere to the standard operating dating ...
Things to consider before moving in together
There are many things to consider before deciding whether or not to move in together. The most important consideration to make is the expectation of what moving in together means for each of you. Try ...
Know what to do after your first date to build a healthy relationship
Dating is a time to have fun and enjoy getting to know potential partners to discover if they’re right for you, and if you are dating authentically you’ll feel open and excited about finding real ...
Heal from past relationships to help you move on and find love
The way in which we handle the past impacts our future. We can either learn from our experiences in order to improve our lives or we can take on the role of the victim. Keep in mind, however, that we ...
Protect yourself from online dating scams to ensure your safety
In our quest to find our perfect mate the under-discussed, and unfortunately overlooked issues is the “it can’t happen to me” syndrome of being on the dating scene and not taking into considerat...
Choose the right matchmaking service to help you find love
There are many ways to meet and find potential partners. Anyone who is motivated to seek that special someone has many tools available to them today - it is more than simply being in the right place a...
How to ask a girl out on a first date
Asking a girl out is a simple task; it’s knowing which route to take that matters most. Since men value youth and physical attractiveness in a woman, a conversation isn’t necessary to gauge which ...
Most guys use online dating sites to find a serious relationship
In the end, it’s just not true that all men are dogs—guys are just looking to be held at a higher standard these days. If you take the time to get to know the person you are dating, it will defini...
Search for the love of your life with the help of a dating coach
Find a Dating Coach with content and a style that resonates with you, but be prepared to work! We’re the personal trainers of your love life, here to support, motivate, and educate you on your path ...
Sugar daddies: what you need to know about dating a much older man
So your guy made VP at his company the same year you became old enough to buy alcohol. Together, you’re hotter than his secretary’s Monday morning coffee. Relationships that are on fire in the beg...
Be smart and professional at the office if you date someone from work
Dating a coworker in the workplace can be hazardous to your work’s health. However, if you keep yourself focused on being professional, keeping the relationship to yourself, and working while at wor...
Be cool, and make it a hot first date with this expert advice
First dates can be difficult waters to navigate, but doing a little pre-date prep, plus practicing a little on-date kindness can get you through those awkward stages, and hopefully into a healthy rela...
Have an engaging conversation when going on a first date with a man
Feeling comfortable with your date creates a willingness to share, and offers a sense of grace in partnership from the moment you meet. This is an important quality to a man who’s interested in a co...
Know how your date is going by how she is flirting
These are all telltale signs that women generally give off when they're into you…and especially when they're not into you. However, don't let these be your judge and jury, rather let the advice abov...
How to grieve, forgive, and move on after a failed relationship
It’s possible to have a successful and healthy end to a long-term relationship. Emotionally letting go through the grieving process, and with help and support from a relationship expert is a very im...
How to ask a man out on a first date
Asking a guy out may make your grandma cringe, but women taking the lead in dating is here to stay. By keeping things casual on your end, your man of choice may not even notice you're taking the lead....
How to end the first date gracefully when you're not interested
None of us are skilled at breaking it off because we don’t want to hurt their feelings or be displeasing. This is natural. If they ask you out again, say, “Thank you so much for asking. I can tell...
Guidance for people who are dating someone with kids
Although dating someone with children can be challenging because it adds another layer of complexity to the relationship, don’t let your fears stop you if you know believe the relationship has promi...
Recreational dating: have fun finding what you want in a relationship
Dating just for fun is a great strategy. Just be clear about what you want and communicate it to your dating partner. Use that time to learn about yourself and what you want in a relationship, and be ...
Make casual sex and one night stands fun, adventurous and pleasurable
Most people think of casual sex and one nights stands as an empty unfulfilling past time, but it doesn’t have to be! So follow this advice and keep your favorite hobby as wild, crazy, and fun as it ...
Advice for men on selecting their online dating profile photo
Photos are the gateway to everything good about online dating. Spend a little time making sure your pictures reflect you accurately and authentically. And take the feedback. If every woman you meet te...
Women: Use sexy and appealing photos for your online dating profile
A photographer friend once told me, “When you’re taking your sexy shot, think, ‘I know a secret.’ It will give you a sweet, sexy, playful expression.”If you’re not getting responses to you...
Best practices on surviving and being successful in online dating
While online dating offers a safe and efficient way to meet new people, it is also a useful exercise that will help you learn more about who you are and what you want. Focusing on the learning piece w...
Someone who can date with confidence is very attractive
Navigating through the world of dating can be a tricky proposition, yet having confidence in you is a must in order to experience success. Visualize your date going well, act as if it will, be yoursel...
Being happy when you are single builds self-confidence when dating
Being a successful single is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. It is having the mindset that you deserve to be happy whether you are single or in a relationship. It’s also an importan...
How to make long distance dating and relationships work
More and more people are entering into distance relationships and making them work. Communication is key. Be honest, be creative, be flexible, and have fun!...
Everything a man needs to know to plan the perfect first date
The way a woman’s mind works is a completely alien concept for a man, which is why, especially on that first date, you need to stick to the safe and traditional approach. She needs to see if you are...
How to date your best friend and not kill your friendship
Love based on friendship is the stuff true love is made of. By being clear with your intentions, careful with your physical advances, and practicing communication, your friendship may have a chance at...

Surviving Divorce

Have a healthy and successful pregnancy while getting a divorce
Divorce during pregnancy can be fraught with emotion. You are not alone, and you will get through this. Give yourself time to grieve and focus on yourself and the new life you are carrying!...
Successfully move on and start over after the divorce is final
At the end of the day, only time will heal your wounds. However, the more time you spend doing other things, the less time you will have to spend on what used to be. The past is gone, and the future i...
Take the right steps to help yourself and reduce stress during divorce
Although divorce can be quite painful, it is also a brand new beginning. New beginnings can be exciting, and if you focus on the positives ahead of you, you can create new, exciting dreams and hopes....
Move beyond dependence-like behaviours to help heal from heartbreak
The sufi poet Rumi reminds us that the way through the pain is to feel the pain. However, even in the midst of those feelings, if you can catch even a glimmer of the fact that healing is possible, and...
Expert advice when your spouse surprises you with divorce
Being surprised by something as big as a divorce is almost impossible to imagine if you have never been in that situation, and is something no one would wish on their worst enemy. However, if you find...
Rebuild your self-confidence and self-worth after divorce
As far as changing “your relationship” goes, focus on the relationship with yourself and what your life would be like as a woman whose essence will be restored. Begin a self-embracing path which w...
Divorcing your sugar daddy: a zero-calorie drama-free action plan
Divorcing your sugar daddy can be an icky, sticky process. There will be times you want to give up, give in, or simply get even. But in the long term, divorce is just another challenge to overcome. Le...
Get a divorce coach to help and support you in your divorce
A divorce coach may be the only person completely in your court, who is your support for handling your divorce challenges in the most effective way possible; and at the same time helping you to gain c...
You win when you remain civil with your ex during the divorce
Divorce will always be a difficult experience. But your actions and your choices can help you to avoid adding unnecessary pain and unnecessary expense to the process....
What to do if you disagree when dividing assets during a divorce
Dividing assets is an important part of the divorce process and one you do not want to shortchange or overlook. Reaching a fair division of property is the goal. To do that, you need to identify the a...
Advice and help when your husband has cheated on you
Cheating is not a death sentence for a relationship. There are many factors that play into whether or not divorce is inevitable. Remember it is not possible to be committed to two people at the same t...
Keep a level head and productive dialogue with your soon to be ex
When we get divorced for the right reasons, and go through the process lovingly and respectfully, it offers an opportunity for growth and paves the way for a bright future.These spiritual tools can of...
My way or the highway is a road to nowhere in divorce
Effective negotiation relies on effective communication. In divorce this is very important especially if you have children that you will be co-parenting after the divorce. Co-parenting and new relatio...
Stand your ground and get what you want out of the divorce
Many people find it difficult to be assertive, especially in a divorce situation. It is important that you take the right steps so that you do not give in to fear or intimidation and that you get what...
Life after divorce: How to rebuild your self-esteem and confidence
As long as your inner core is not strong, your divorce will affect your sense of self confidence and self worth. Making that core strong will pave the way to the next chapter of your life as a single,...
How to survive divorce and still get what you and your family need
Throwing in the towel is giving up. Sometimes we justify it by saying it just isn’t worth it to keep fighting the fight! And what if you weren’t fighting the fight? What if you were paying attenti...
Women in divorce need to understand division of marital assets
In order to divide assets you first need to be aware of your total financial picture. Getting good advice and representation is also critical to understanding your needs and rights before you sit down...
How to make a trial separation work and not always end in divorce
A trial separation may be the next step; a well-planned trial separation can be enormously helpful. When approached with considerable thought and planning they do save some marriages. Just as importan...
Reduce the stress of divorce by being cooperative and rational
The better a couple is able to cooperate, the sooner you can complete the divorce, which is the ultimate goal. Divorces are not about win or lose; it’s about finding salvation and taking the appropr...

Weddings

Successfully choose the wine for a wedding
Choosing the wine for your wedding reception is an important detail that can take time and be challenging if you don’t know a lot about wine. Consult with the staff at your local wine shop. They can...
Enjoy the full wine tasting experience with decanting
The choice to decant - and for how long - is a very individualized decision. Each wine is unique in its need for aeration and filtering. Experiment and go by your own personal preference. Most of all,...
Advice for planning an environmentally friendly green wedding
Planning a green, eco-friendly wedding is no different than a non-green wedding and you can do it without sacrificing your budget, vision or sanity. Complete your research early or ask for help. Use p...
Choose the right jewelry to help accentuate your wedding gown
From ensuring that your jewelry coordinates with your dress and hair style, to what to choose for your “something old, new, borrowed, and blue,” there are many things to consider when picking out ...
Expert advice for planning a stress-free wedding
Wedding memories last a lifetime. A memorable wedding begins with thoughtful, considerate planning. Sticking to a budget and planning a wedding that reflects your shared values ensures your wedding da...
Lake Geneva, WI: The destination wedding place of your dreams
For nearly 150 years, Lake Geneva has been a vacation destination for Chicagoans. Today, Lake Geneva is recognized as One of a Dozen Distinctive Destinations offering a vast array of lodging opportuni...
Choose a great videographer to capture your wedding day
While photography has always been the go-to wedding service that captures the special day, videography has really grown in popularity. It’s fun to show off your highlight video to friends online, or...
Advice on choosing the best photographer for your wedding day
Wedding photos will last forever, and while you and your spouse and your family and friends are the subjects of these photos, it is the photographer’s style and vision that produced these photos. Th...
Plan a memorable and affordable destination wedding in Myrtle Beach
Whether it’s a week-long wedding affair, a long weekend getaway or a memorable honeymoon, the attainable and affordable destination of Myrtle Beach will not disappoint....
Wedding Woofers: How to include your dog in your wedding
The decision to include your dog in your wedding is an important and joyous one. It’s a decision that needs to include all the pros and cons before you invite them. Make sure that everyone, (you, yo...
Create your wedding guest list without overextending your invites
Guest list can quickly become a headache for any newly engaged couple, but they don’t have to be. By properly managing the guest list, couples can not only experience a less stressful wedding planni...
Bridesmaid etiquette: How to honor your friend's wedding day
All in all, as a bridesmaid, you hold such a special position in the wedding and that should be treated with the utmost respect. The bride loves you, trusts you, and appreciates your presence. Take yo...
How to plan an unforgettable bachelorette party
If you have been given the pleasure of hosting a bachelorette party, know that it is your one shot to make the Bride-To-Be’s last fling before the ring one for the bachelorette record books. Leaving...
Advice for planning a successful wedding in the digital age
As technology continues to play a large role in our lives and makes things quicker and easier, newlyweds will continue to tread the fine line between innovation and tradition....
When creating your wedding registry choose gifts you want and need
Registering for your wedding seems simple, but when faced with the proposition of making a giant joint wish list, it can be hard to know where to start. Weddings are built on cultural and societal tra...
Choose a wedding officiant that will create the special ceremony
When you have found your perfect match, it’s important to find your second perfect match: an ideal officiant who will make you feel comfortable, listen to you, and be unique. They’ll work with you...
Advice for choreographing your wedding dance
Remember, long after the food has been eaten, the guests have gone home and the wedding gown has been packed away, you’ll always be able to use your new abilities with the timeless art of dance....
You can have a dream wedding with a limited budget
Don’t be afraid to think outside the box and to try something new. Your wedding is just that, your wedding - so feel free to mix it up a bit. Even if budget is a concern, your dream wedding is possi...
What you need to know for the perfect wedding reception
It is important that you feel comfortable knowing that your event planner understands your vision on your wedding day. It’s all about both of you! Determine your personal wedding style, gather toget...
How to have a beautiful wedding and save money at the same time
Often times, the expenses that seem most appropriate to cut when planning a wedding, end up costing you more in the long run or ultimately diminish your guests’ enjoyment of day. So be sure to be se...
Go to a stylist to get the perfect hair on your wedding day
“I didn’t care what my hair looked like,” said no bride ever. The way you feel about the way you look on your wedding day will be a determining factor in how you enjoy the day, so consider the i...
How to buy the perfect engagement ring for your fiancée
Now that you know just about everything to consider when looking for and evaluating a diamond engagement ring, it’s time to start shopping for that special someone!...

Pregnancy

Nutritional advice for you and your baby while pregnant
By achieving optimum nutritional well-being prior to and during pregnancy, you are optimizing the environment for your baby draws their nutrients, as well as maximizing your own body's ability to adap...
Hypnosis can remove stress and hormonal cravings when pregnant
Pregnancy is the journey of creation, happiness and health moving forward for a mother and her family. What a wonderful expression of health and well being when this journey is successful and health, ...
Successfully treat postpartum depression after having a baby
Being depressed does not mean you are a bad parent. However, it is a sign that something chemical or situational may be going on. There is help out there. You deserve to enjoy being a parent, and your...
Your wife needs your support to help her beat postpartum disorder
Postpartum disorders are serious business. Men often feel helpless when they can’t fix their partners mood. However, you are being a great husband by supporting her in these other ways mentioned. Do...
Prevention and treatment for pregnancy and postpartum mood disorders
Mood disorders such as depression and anxiety can overwhelm women both during pregnancy and after having a baby. We call these Perinatal Mood Disorders (PPMDs).If you are a pregnant or postpartum woma...
Cope with the loss of a baby after having a miscarriage
The loss of a baby can also mean the loss of a dream. Your journey will be individual and different from someone else that you may know. It’s important to give yourself time for that journey, and st...
Help surviving a summer pregnancy and staying cool in the heat
Pregnancy is an exciting time for expectant mothers. Although the summer heat and humidity can make you uncomfortable, it’s still possible to enjoy and survive the summertime while pregnant. By know...
Have a healthy baby and pregnancy with this expert advice
When planning the arrival of your newborn, you want to do everything you can to ensure a healthy baby and pregnancy. With so many tips and decisions associated with pregnancy, it’s easy to feel over...
Holistically treat post-pregnancy nutritional deficiencies
The more pregnancies a woman has had, the more likely she is to suffer afterward with physical and “mental” ailments due to nutritional deficiencies. These symptoms may occur soon after the pregna...
Control the risk factors of autism and ADHD prior to pregnancy
With the prevalence of autism and ADHD increasing, most people know someone with a child affected by these disorders. The good news is that researchers are studying autism and ADHD, and they are learn...
Collect and store cord blood to protect your newborn's future health
When it comes to your child’s health, it’s important to have options to ensure he or she will grow up to be strong and healthy. Cord blood banking can provide you and your family with reassurance ...
Treat common pregnancy ailments at the first sign of discomfort
Pregnancy can bring its own set of challenges before you meet your new bundle of joy at the end of a long nine (technically, ten!) month waiting period. Don’t be afraid to speak up and talk with you...
Reduce and treat pregnancy swelling in your feet and ankles
After your baby arrives the swelling should subside. Your body will shed the excess fluid throughout the first few days, mostly through urination. If you are concerned about your swelling or have any ...
An online baby registry is a great way to get the gifts you want
The best way to avoid unwanted gifts and those that you will need to return is to create an online registry. No longer restricted to weddings and baby showers, online gift registries have become commo...
Avoid developing gestational diabetes to ensure a healthy pregnancy
Your risk of developing gestational diabetes mellitus can be reduced by the choices you make before and during pregnancy. And if you develop GDM, you can have a successful pregnancy if you work with y...
How you should prepare for pregnancy when you have diabetes
Monitoring diabetes is even more important leading up to and during pregnancy. In order to ensure the health of you and your baby during pregnancy, you should work closely with your doctor beginning b...
Exercising while you are pregnant is healthy for you and your baby
Exercise during pregnancy is important for many reasons, including reducing your risk of excess weight gain and gestational diabetes, preparing your body for labor, and helping with returning to your ...
Varicose veins can be prevented during and after pregnancy
Varicose veins are common for women to develop during pregnancy. By following this advice you can prevent and deal with varicose veins. It is important to remember to keep your blood flowing, exercise...
How to recover after experiencing a traumatic birth
Having a baby rarely goes as planned, and sometimes, things that are completely out of your control happen, which can cause a lot of emotion, and sometimes lead to post-traumatic stress disorder. Usin...
Reduce the worry, anxiety, and stress experienced during pregnancy
Preparing for the birth of a baby can bring up all sorts of complicated and exciting feelings. It is often a time of stress, but can also be a time of profound introspection and contemplation. If the ...
Adjusting to life after having a baby and coping with postpartum
The birth of a first child is a wonderful experience that brings with it much stress. This article attempts to explore ways the new mom can learn to accept that which she does not yet know, and the mi...
Exercising while pregnant is safe and eases recovery after delivery
Pregnancy presents an opportune time to exercise. Regular exercise has benefits for both you and your baby. Following a regular exercise schedule can help to maintain fitness throughout pregnancy and ...
It is important to protect your back and spine during pregnancy
As with any medical recommendations, be sure to check with your doctor first. Any severe back pain or rhythmic back pains could be signs that warrant medical care or signs of preterm labor. During pre...

Anxiety and Stress

Reduce and manage stress at work and at home to enjoy life more
Work stress is part of work, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Learning how to manage stress is a challenge and sometimes may feel like too much work, but if you are able to take small steps t...
Reduce stress and anxiety by unleashing your happy hormones
If you find yourself exhausted, overwhelmed, up and down and about to meltdown, its time to stop being stressed and depressed and learn how to unleash your happy hormones.You could be one of the 40 mi...
Manage and reduce stress by turning negative thoughts into positives
With a world filled with stress and us exposed to it at almost every turn, it can seem overwhelming. But these techniques can allow you to decrease your response to that stress and put yourself back i...
Energy EFT Tapping Points
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Practicing meditation can help you greatly reduce and manage stress
Above all, enjoy your meditation.Meditation is about you experiencing peace, joy, love, relaxation and more. So relax and have fun. Allow yourself the freedom to discovery your way of meditating. Who ...
Energy EFT and Emotrance can help your body heal from trauma
Energy EFT and Emo-Trance finally help solve problems in life that until now have been confusing and frustrating. With a little bit of help and dedication, you can help your body’s energy heal from ...
Manage your emotions to help you with stress, anxiety, and depression
Taking control of your mental health begins with recognizing what comprises a healthy emotional state and how to maintain it. During any transition, it is vital for students to obtain a healthy mental...
Expert advice for holistically reducing anxiety and learning to cope
Life is a skill that must constantly be developed and adapted with mindful and dedicated attention. To that end, individuals can certainly learn to employ a number of strategies and cultivate certain ...
Hidden stressors to be aware of to help you reduce anxiety and stress
Stress is one of the leading killers in the United States and given our fast paced lifestyle this is not likely to ever change. One area where stress impacts us is its affect on our blood sugar, which...
Holistically uplift your mental state, reduce stress, and enjoy life
Let’s begin to minimize our stress and achieve a clear mind. Try the above tips and remember, a stable mind is the key to total wellness....
Manage and control stress by learning coping techniques
Stress is an intrinsic part of our busy and overscheduled lives. It’s something unavoidable and we all face a certain amount on a daily basis. The amount of stress and how it manifests both physical...
Expert advice for understanding and treating your anxiety disorder
A very important do and don’t for anyone diagnosed with an anxiety disorder is reading all the information available online. There is a lot of great information about anxiety disorders on the intern...
Confront and overcome your fears and phobias with this expert advice
Fear is something that we all live with in some form or fashion. And, despite how real and scary it can feel, it is actually just an illusion we create in our own minds. The good news is we can work o...
Holistically reduce anxiety by instilling a healthy lifestyle
Anxiety affects an overwhelming amount of Americans. While some anxiety and stress can help to optimize your potential, unrelenting anxiety and stress can be detrimental to your health and well-being....
Hypnosis is a great way to help you overcome your fears
Like every kind of treatment, hypnosis doesn’t have a perfect success rate, and it’s not for absolutely everyone. But it can be highly effective for treating fears and phobias. Just make sure you ...
Stress relief advice to help you chill out and enjoy life
Life is not a race, so why rush? Slow down and your stress levels will drop significantly.Many people get so caught up in the stresses of everyday life that they accept that there is nothing they can ...
What you need to know about understanding and overcoming anxiety
Anxiety can easily make us feel trapped and disempowered. However, it is really not the emotion that keeps us stuck, but the ways we approach it. We either start frantically looking for potential dang...
Defeat anxiety by healing past memories and empowering yourself
There are many ways that you can change your thinking when you feel anxious. Apply the techniques and you not only can eliminate anxiety, but you will feel empowered that you can control your thinking...
Overcome your fear of flying when nothing else seems to help
Fear of flying can be overcome. But if the things you have tried have not worked for you, that doesn’t mean you are hopeless. It only means the things you tried were inadequate. ...
Naturally manage stress and anxiety during the holiday season
Adding even just a few of these tips will help you manage stress, reduce anxiety, and enjoy the holiday season more fully! Be sure to breathe, exercise, and not overcommit yourself to too many things....
Talk to a therapist to help manage and overcome your anxiety
Anxiety can be at its worst, debilitating, and at its best, annoying. It is also very common among people for a variety of reasons. If you feel anxious, do not be embarrassed or too stubborn to get he...
Reduce your holiday stress and enjoy the season
By following these steps during Christmas and New Year’s, this time of year can really be an opportunity to make memories that will last a lifetime. Make the decision that this year you’re going t...
Take charge and reduce stress on a daily basis with this advice
Simple, yet powerful, reminders of the heavy loads of life that we carry around with us each day, and that all too often we simply accept rather than address, is helpful in learning how to manage your...
Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) helps treat PTSD
EMDR is a comprehensive treatment approach that incorporates components of a number of different psychotherapies. It proposes that a traumatic event can be so overwhelming that it freezes the informat...
Simple tips to help manage anxiety and stay in control
Be encouraged and enthusiastic! You are not alone and many understand and empathize with your plight and the very real ramifications it can have in one’s life, including damaging relationships in so...
Meditative techniques throughout your workday can reduce stress
Calming the nervous system by engaging the parasympathetic response, lowers stress hormones, signals to the brain that it is ok to relax, and allows the body and mind to start functioning at a more op...
Control your emotions and reduce anxiety without therapy
This article teaches you basic ways to stop feeling the way you do not want to feel. It also helps you to accept your thoughts as they are, so that you are able to move past them, control your emotion...

Death of a Spouse

Advice for surviving the death of a spouse or partner at a young age
The journey of young widowhood is not easy. However, there are many healthy ways to cope with your loss that will help you move through it and even uplift you. Reach for support when you need it, spea...
Learn to accept and embrace the death of a loved one
Can you recall all the love, intellect, caring, humor and other positive qualities of your departed loved one? All that continues on beyond bodily death! That’s the great news that will help you get...
Advice on helping a loved one through the first year of grieving
Supporting a loved one through their grief journey can be challenging. You might feel a bit lost at times and unsure about how to best offer support. There are many tips and tools that can help you as...
The death of a spouse: Rebuilding your life after the first year
The second year after the loss of a spouse is a time of change. Grieving takes second place to refiguring and rebuilding your life. This is a time to not only reclaim your life and refocus on a new, s...
Live, love and laugh again after the loss of a loved one
At first it’s hard to make the transition to a new ‘you’. It requires not feeling guilty for smiling again, laughing again….to face your fears head-on by taking risks again. Above all else, th...
Take care of yourself emotionally after a loved one dies
Coping techniques may help you emotionally after someone dies. Help yourself by learning to identify what normal grief reactions are and then utilize the coping techniques that best work for you. If y...

Divorced and Dating

Dating after divorce: How to find love again
No matter how this date goes, it is important to put your best foot forward and let your personality shine. Stick to this advice and we know you will have a stellar reintroduction into the dating pool...
Heal from divorce, create for yourself a new life and find love
The key to successfully finding the right person for you is to date consciously. That means being aware of the choices you are making, finding out how relationships are supposed to work, and being cle...
Considerations when dating a man who has a different parenting style
Dating with children after divorce can be challenging for a myriad of reasons. And if you and your date have vastly different parenting styles it can be impossible. So in your quest for new love maint...
Advice on returning to the dating game for the second or third time
It is vital to keep dating solely about the experience, rather than the end goal of finding a partner. If you can do this, you will be more likely end up with both: A great experience and a wonderful ...
Stay confident when you start dating again after a divorce
It’s natural to feel unsteady when thinking about dating after divorce. It’s important to do the inner work to know why you are dating, set expectations and boundaries, know and love yourself, and...
How to avoid relationship mistakes when dating after a divorce
Reentering the dating scene is a wonderful opportunity to set yourself free from the childhood emotional demons that haunt our adult relationships. The key to freedom is consciousness: Know your old s...
Advice for men on rejoining the dating scene after the divorce
Dating after divorce can be a daunting idea but it doesn’t have to be awful. Taking time to get clear on the kind of relationship you want before you start can pave the way for this exciting new par...

Menopause

Regain your health when suffering from perimenopausal symptoms
Your body is a magnificently self-aware and self-healing organism that, given the right conditions, can heal itself of nearly any disease. One key is to get rid of stressors—the bad things—such as...
Expert advice on getting hormone replacement therapy with pellets
It is of great importance that you discuss your options with your doctor to choose the best course of action for you....
Break the myths of menopause to help celebrate this natural change
There are symptoms that many women get at this precarious time in life, but they must not be blamed on menopause or the natural decline of hormones. Menopause is a natural, once an honored and celebra...
Symptoms to look for when suspecting menopause
When asked to give a definition of menopause, there are a variety of answers that may consist of “When you get hot flashes” to “Not having a period for over a year”. Many women go under diagno...
Expert advice on treating and preventing hot flashes during menopause
Hot flashes are a common symptom of women experiencing menopause, but you do not have to just sit idly by and suffer through it. There are many things that can help you reduce these symptoms, and reme...
Prevent weight gain during menopause with this expert advice
Weight gain does not have to be an inevitable part of the aging process. As women age, there is a natural decline in hormone levels. Hormonal imbalance causes many unpleasant symptoms including fatigu...
Expert advice for living with someone going through menopause
Menopause is a natural stage of life and a period of time for change. With education, communication, and patience, the woman going through menopause will be okay, and so will you....
Bio-identical hormone replacement therapy can help during menopause
In summary, BHRT offers women an option in the treatment of menopause. Obtaining balance in your hormones is important. Imagine your body as a symphony orchestra. No one instrument in the symphony can...
Advice for selecting a bio-identical hormone therapy for menopause
Hormones are ‘chemical messengers’ that transport information between cells and facilitate communication among different organs, regulating various functions in the body. When hormone levels decli...

Fertility

Expert advice when your having a hard time getting pregnant
The journey of conceiving can be way more difficult than you ever imagined it could be. And while much of it is not within your control, this article highlights some ways that you can take back a semb...
Low sperm count? Consider IVF to improve chances of conception
If you and your partner are having trouble conceiving, it may be that the male is experiencing sperm problems either with their sperm count, motility, progression, or morphology. Because of the great ...
Reduce toxins and increase fertility and chances to conceive
In summary, it is important to be in the best health possible to maximize your chances for conception, and for a healthy baby. Many simple factors are often overlooked that are important for fertility...
Get pregnant faster: Advice for boosting your chances of conceiving
You’re not alone. If you have questions about conceiving, talk to your doctor – whether it’s your regular OB-GYN or a fertility specialist, they are the best sources for accurate information abo...
How to protect your fertility after a cancer diagnosis
Any reproductive age patient receiving chemotherapy or radiation is at risk for reduced fertility. Asking your doctor about options and seeking a consult with a fertility preservation expert can help ...
Considering In Vitro Fertilization? How to pay for IVF costs
Even if IVF costs seem daunting at first, be assured you have many options to help you pay for your fertility treatment. You may be lucky and have insurance coverage for IVF costs. But even if not, yo...
A healthy and balanced diet can have a great impact on fertility
Women and men trying to conceive a child would benefit from eating a healthy and varied diet coupled with moderate exercise. It is best to avoid alcohol, smoking, drug use, and excessive caffeine. Fer...
Having a baby: What you should know when trying to conceive
Following these tips can increase your chances of pregnancy, and remove some of the uncertainty that can arise when trying. While there can be a lot to keep in mind, don’t let the details bog you do...
Couples can make conception more successful and less stressful
Trying to get pregnant can seem like a laborious and lengthy process. Educate yourself, know the facts and recognize when to get help. There are many available resources to help make this process less...
Endometriosis can affect fertility. Here’s how to get help
With proper diagnosis and treatment, the symptoms of endometriosis can be greatly lessened and fertility improved. If you feel as if you are experiencing severe pain during your menstrual cycles, then...

Divorce and Separation Law

The right way to separate
Again, separation is more than taking a break from your marriage and living apart from your spouse.  It is an important time to plan and reflect on you and your family’s legal, financial, and emoti...
What to do when "I do" turns into “I don’t”- A Divorce Guide
A divorce involves one of the most emotionally trying times in your life. You should be as prepared as possible to act in your own best interests....
Legal guidance for co-parenting a pet with your ex
 Life has a way of throwing us curve balls and how we adjust to them can be the difference between a happy and not so happy life. No one heads into a marriage expecting to get divorced, but when it h...
How to choose the right divorce attorney for your divorce
When it comes to finding a divorce attorney, be thorough in your research. Take into account credentials as well as personal chemistry. Be clear on all the fees upfront. Make sure you are in agreement...
Negotiating alimony during a divorce
A woman in the midst of a divorce proceeding once said “Marriage is about love. Divorce is about money.” This is so true. Alimony is one of the key money matters that must be negotiated and settle...
A parenting plan means more than trading weekends with your ex
Co-parenting is more than simply co-scheduling. Children of divorced parents can and do thrive on the same consistent rules and constructive communication as children of married couples. Taking the ti...
Divorcing and divorced dads succeed when they put the interests of the children first
Most men and women do not realize that they put their children in the middle of their disputes. It’s not something done intentionally, but you need to remember that your anger is not your child’s ...
Fathers will win child custody battles if the children are the priority in everyday life
Being a good dad means both talking the talk and walking the walk. Everyone from the ex to the kids to the guardian to teachers, coaches, neighbors, doctors and shrinks is watching. Show them all what...
Take precautions to ensure a quick and fair high net-worth divorce
The issues facing high net worth divorcing families are often different from the issues faced by lower/middle income divorcing families. As such, they must be planned for and approached in a manner be...
These child support basics will benefit you and your children
The most important thing to remember is that child support is about the needs of the children. They need support in a number of ways, financially for sure, but also emotionally by not being made a lig...
Men will prosper in a divorce by focusing on these practical solutions
As in all things, if you get educated about what’s before you and go into it expecting the worst, the chances of it being worse than you expected are about even. Get a lawyer you can get along with,...
Be realistic, reasonable and communicate for a successful divorce
It is understandable that through divorce and separation many emotions will arise between both parties. However remember that the legal system is not a tool that you can use to gain revenge against th...
Find hidden assets that your spouse has not declared during divorce
Divorcing couples must know where all the assets are. Neither side has the right to hide money and every right to use all the means necessary to discover where the assets are and what their value is. ...
Divorce mediators help you settle differences and save money
Divorce mediation is one way to settle issues relating to your divorce. Before selecting this process, it is important that you fully understand what a mediator can and cannot do, that you obtain lega...
Mediation can help you get what you want in divorce and save money
Mediation is an effective, relatively inexpensive way to settle divorces. However, you have to be prepared, be in control of your emotions, and be realistic about the results. Good legal and financial...
Know the difference between custody and shared parenting in divorce
Shared parenting and custody are often confused terms. As you can see, they are separate concepts. Shared parenting is a likely outcome for a situation where you and your ex are no longer together. An...
Parents considering divorce must protect themselves and kids
Making the decision to hire an attorney to represent you, as opposed to choosing to represent yourself, may be one of the most important decisions you will ever make. This decision can have an impact ...
A collaborative divorce avoids a court battle and reduces costs
Collaborative divorce is an alternative to a drawn out court battle. The process might result in an easier transition for the parties and their children. But collaborative divorce is not for everyone....
Choose the right divorce attorney to protect you and your family
Divorce can be devastating, especially when children are involved. Picking an attorney you like and trust and who has experience and knowledge will make a difficult time of life better for all parties...
How to get an annulment when there is misrepresentation or fraud
Annulment is different from divorce, but still requires legal representation and a court case. Be sure your circumstances meet the requirements for an annulment, and not a divorce, before you proceed ...
How to ensure your ex-spouse complies with the court's orders
Judges generally do not take kindly to those who consistently flout their orders. However, because the possible penalties for violating a court order include incarceration, it is important that your e...

Families in Divorce

Teenagers: You can get through your parents' divorce
There’s no sugarcoating the fact that divorce is trying for everyone, especially for the children. Remember though, that this will pass. Your parents will eventually be their normal selves again, an...
Creating a safe, open space is key to talking to kids about divorce
Children thrive when they grow up in a conflict-free environment, and this initial conversation about divorce is the first opportunity for parents to create this safe space. By telling children togeth...
Single moms have healthy social lives by managing kids' expectations
It is vital for adults to engage in a social life post divorce. Having no interests outside of children is unhealthy and sends the wrong message to kids. While it is common for children to fantasize t...
Sensitivity is vital when talking to toddlers about divorce
Toddlers thrive when their needs are understood and met. Remember, your children may not have the words to express themselves at all times. Be patient, keep the routines as steady as possible, and rea...
Ease the transition for kids between two homes after divorce
After a divorce, it can be very difficult for children to adjust to living arrangements between the new homes of their parents. While the constant moving can become taxing, it is possible to make the ...
Help your kids by moving on after divorce and reclaim your life
Divorce can leave you feeling like your life is spinning out of control, but tying up the remaining ties that bind you will help you reclaim your life. It is important to remember, especially for pare...
Managing the effects of divorce on kids with and without disabilities
A divorce is challenging for any family to endure. When a family with disabilities is divorcing, some of the same guidelines apply to the family in terms of how to minimize stress and maximize positiv...
Expert advice for protecting your children during and after divorce
To avoid making regrettable mistakes and to safeguard our children’s peace of mind following your divorce there’s one crucial question every parent should ask themselves: Do I love my children mor...
What to do when your teenager wants to move in with your ex-spouse
When your teenager tells you they want to move in with your ex you may feel overwhelmed, upset, betrayed, or hurt. It is important to not let these feelings cloud your judgment. If you are certain you...
Navigating divorce while raising a child with special needs
Divorce is challenging for the entire family, but smart planning is vital when caring for a child with special needs. Make the system work for you and your child by taking a practical look at what spe...
Ensure a happy and healthy future for kids by divorcing with dignity
How you divorce and how you behave after the divorce affects your children for the rest of their lives. When you divorce with dignity, you are teaching your children how to behave by your example--not...
Make your divorce easier on kids by divorcing only your spouse
Divorce is traumatic for the entire family—especially for children. Always think about your words and your actions. It is crucial to help your children understand that although their family has chan...
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